3.16.2008

Dream's traffic light

It took me a snap to think about the topic, It took me a second to think about the title, but it took me forever to finish everything; to weave the words, to organize ideas, and to create a dramatic flow. Though I’m not yet contented, I still think that this is sensible in a way. Let me share to you my last article for my column Metanioa, The Paulinian Publication. It is timely, as we (graduating students) welcome the real world, we should hold on to our dreams and make it the direction of our days.


“When you want something, all the universe conspires in helping you to achieve it”
– The Alchemist by Paulo Coelho



Webster defines dream as something seen or thought in sleep. So, I assumed that dreams are just product of people’s unconscious mind. But how can humans think about something if he is in unconscious state, especially when he sleeps? Does this signify that things we want to think about are carried on in our sleep, or maybe dreams are just created for people’s wish fulfillment? Another definition is that, dreams are imagination, a frustrating fact for ultimate dreamers who create visualizations destined to materialize. But are dreams really just an imagination? Or does it have the potential to be our own reality?

Dreams are vital in our life’s journey, it is an aspiration that drives and motivates us to establish an ambition. Apart from doing what we want, dreams help us search for self fulfillment and purpose. As an individual, each of us has something to do, share, and contribute. God has prepared something for us no matter what way we choose or what directions we take. Sometimes, we see our dreams coming true in a very idealistic manner; we tend to create a leap from our visions to reality without knowing that, the process is the one that determines the substance; materialize our aspirations. Dreams are not met overnight; simply because it’s a daily task. It takes a lot of courage, faith, and wisdom to fulfill everything we want. Let me reiterate that dreams are achieved on a daily basis; therefore, we should fulfill it by making our dreams the focal point of our days. Take dreams as traffic lights, something that is part of our everyday encounters, something that we literally look up to, and something that we need to obediently follow. Like traffic lights, our dreams have their own light signals.

We enjoy a continuous journey with a green light, we find ways and search for directions in order to chase our dreams and see it revealed at the end of the road. As we journey, we encounter different kinds of people, people that may seem nothing to us and people that serves as an instrument for our dreams fulfillment. We don’t know what they are after to, we don’t even know what dreams are they chasing, what we just know is that, we are all on the same road, traversing the same street, not knowing if they would still be there as we make our next turn. We can not just freely go on with our lives, there will come a time that a red light would flash, telling us to stop. Probably, someone has to pass; someone has to move ahead of us. In moments like this, never get discouraged, because certainly, we will have our own time; our own moment to shine. Just put in mind that we gave way to someone who holds the chance and opportunity of a lifetime. We should always remember that patience is a virtue and we need to hold on to it in order to understand the quest to our dreams. More importantly, we should strengthen our perseverance as a value because it helps us surpass the unattainable, impossible, and unreachable. The momentary stop does not occur to delay or destroy our dreams, it also exists to give us time to think, learn, and process. It pays to value even a fraction given to us to seize what we have through a meaningful realization. With our busy life and pre-occupied minds, it’s relieving to give ourselves to God once in a while. Sometimes, a meaningful stop is all we need to find the missing pieces of our dream’s puzzle. And when we’ve done this, our heart and mind conspires to be unison in direction. Thus, revealing our desired reality beneath the watershed. There are times that as we journey, we are prepared for what will happen next. Traffic lights have the orange or amber signals that remind us that any moment, we need to go or stop. This signal maybe insignificant but I think that this is the most important thing in traffic lights. It creates anticipation and expectations, it exist in order to make execution safe and properly placed. Through this, we are warned and guided accordingly. In our quest for our dreams, we encounter signs and symbols that we use and equate to a certain relevant meanings. This orange light may just occur in a split of seconds but with this, significant twist and turn of events can change everything.

The roads we travel towards our dreams are exactly different from the others. Sometimes it’s rough, sometimes it’s smooth. There are times that we need to move, there are also times that we need to stay. But as we go on, we encounter our own traffic light reminding us that we need to follow something. We may deviate from what we need to follow, but it would create consequences that may delay and destroy our much wanted dreams. We may come across a lot of u-turns and detours, but if we are really determined, we will see our dreams waiting for us at the end of the road. But finding the end is not ending the dream; the life. It also signals a new beginning; a new start to face another dream. And when you already reach this state, never forget to look up again to your dream’s traffic light, because this light once helped you fulfill your aspirations. Continue to dream; aspire and inspire. Remember that stars are scattered in the night, and surely, one is shimmering just for you. Don’t keep them waiting, instead, make them sparkling.

True that dreams are imaginations; forms of wish fulfillment, but as a person, we have the power to turn visions in to reality. We have to put in mind, that if we want something, we have to earn it and if we have something, we have to deserve it.

And lastly, dreams are left frozen unless realized.


mydreamreality
jan

3.15.2008

When you made it w/ flying colors...

when something ends, another thing begins.
03.15.2008 officiallly ends my life as a student, well as an undergraduate of course, i wouldn't now when will i be able to take up my second degree or masters. It's a mixed emotion as what they always say, walking at the Fleur de Lis to pay my last respect, honor and gratitude to my alma mater is like leaving home, leaving a place you always felt secured, sheltered and comforted. That's how it is in St. Paul, and i know that's how it will always be. I know for myself how i was as a student, aside form the knowledge i gained from my mentors, the friendships i made, the organizations i joined, and the activities i became part of, it's the relationships i built with the people around the four corners of this institution that made me not just a level-headed individual but a person who understands that knowing Christ is not the end but being able to experience him is just the beginning, inviting him to your life is a progress and sharing him with others is a success. We are all unaware of where life would take us, we are all inexperienced but ready to face the battle, survive the jungle and conquer the "real world" as they say. And that's when i thought how real could that world be. As we find the path to our prospected careers, we will slowly realize that our decisions are no longer influenced by our school, but we should be ready to stand on our own, face a bigger world where our potentials will be developed and skills be maximized. After all, we are molded to be women of substance; women who has sense, purpose and reason.

1.w/ my thesis mates, Mich & Che 2.Gruppo Merkado 3. w/ my best friends, Kaye,Ivy&Char

BSBA-Marketing batch 2008


With this i bear in mind that,
The Fleur de Lis is my Symbol,
Green and Gold is my Blood,
In Mind, In Heart and In Spririt,
Forever i'll be a Paulinian.
Caritas Cristi Urget Nos!
jan

3.07.2008

First night of the last. Now I know why it’s called Embassy.

The night is young and so are we. I tasted my first night life on the last week of my college life. It’s never too late to experience a moment you wished to put in a certain point in your life’s time frame. I got a chance to visit the much talk about fly club for youngsters, the Embassy. True to its name, Embassy is your gateway to a place you’ve never been and a place you want to be. We (Me, Kira, Chars, Shem, Carla, Fatz, and Ann) got in there via the guest listing courtesy of Shem. In short, we didn’t shed even a single centavo to get inside, so we seized the moment as much as we can. As a keen observer, I did not just danced the whole night; there are things that I noticed as I enter the ultra glamorous party place. The line was flooded with youngsters at the strike of Cinderella’s curfew. Different faces, from different places, joined all together to experience a life of ecstasy that simply and drastically fades without further notice. The place was jampacked, we could hardly move, you could bump into each other’s shoulder as you make a little glide. I saw smokes as fog emanating from a cigarette on the middle of one’s fingers on a hand that is raised up above; from guys, young girls, socialites, and even waiters. Bouncers were all over making sure that these kids would not create any mess. Certainly, bottles with alcohol content were passed all over making a sound that tingles in my ear. Seeing people I only saw on the pages of Mega is like scanning the pages of it with live actions. Of course there’s TimYap, the mysteriously handsome John “DJ Johnny Verse” Herrera, the next-gen partygoers from the upper class, few models and celebrities. As I checked the dance floor (literally), I saw pieces of broken glass form bottles unconsciously or deliberately dropped, clips, earrings, hanky, wrappers, and so many unidentified fallen objects. The music was extremely loud causing my eardrums to get immune from a great splash of sound waves that runs in my body through my ear. It was great! The moment we all reached the peak of unconsciously expressing our happiness, I realized that this might be my toast to my first night life on the last week of my college life. Youth certainly have the power; young and fearless as they are, they live life at the peak of elation. As the music, laser, smoke and us serves as an element for a gathering; a commonality, an emerging life never ceased to exist; a kind of life that I wanted to freeze.


1. Chars, Shem & Carla at Gonuts, 2. The Emba nature party collateral at the powder room, 3. feet on the floor.

1. DJ Johnny Verse in tie, 2. Emba's colorful laser, 3. at the powder room.


1. at the parking lot, 2. me and Kira at the dance floor, 3. Kira, Chars, Carla, Shem, and Me 4. after hours at the Fort.


until the next episode
jan